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Helping soulful, ambitious women reconnect with their gifts and purpose through Human Design for spiritual growth and energy healing.

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For years, I followed all the traditional paths... college, career, advanced degrees... but still felt lost. Deep down, I knew I was meant for something more. It wasn’t until I discovered Human Design — not just as a personality tool but as a framework for spiritual growth — and combined it with spiritual healing tools for trauma survivors like GeoLove, that I finally understood myself... and the role I’m meant to play in the world. Now, I help other women — just like you — do the same.

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👉 Discover your Human Design + spiritual gifts

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Human Design Chart Readings (60 minutes)

Choose a session type on the next page from readings for first-timers to in-depth sessions exploring what Human Design is for spiritual growth and how it can transform your relationships, purpose, and energy.

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GeoLove Healing (60 minutes)

Energy-based healing using sacred geometry and Divine Love — one of my most powerful spiritual healing tools for trauma survivors. These sessions clear blocks, restore inner peace, and activate your spiritual gifts.

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Group GeoLove Healing

I'm holding several FREE group GeoLove sessions this fall. I want to provide an opportunity for you to try it, and I need your help for my GeoLove X certification!

Happy Clients

Healing from gaslighting, trauma, and narcissistic abuse... in my clients’ words

"Mandy has a divine gift. I felt lighter, more peaceful, and deeply seen after our session."

"Thank you so much for the healing today. I didn't feel much until afterwards. I have been sick for weeks and right afterwards the sinus pressure released. A huge weight has been lifted. I feel so re-energized. Thank you."

“I got some great tips on how to work with my little homeschooler. I felt validated in who I am. When Mandy described my bursts of energy, my husband and I laughed out loud — it was spot on! I’m grateful for the direction and clarity I didn’t even know I needed.”

Hey, it's nice to meet you, I'm Mandy Starling

Hey, I’m Mandy Starling — a 6/2 Emotional Manifesting Generator with a passion for helping women stop overthinking, start trusting their design, and finally feel like themselves again.Through my own journey with adrenal fatigue; spiritual burnout; dissociation across the physical, spiritual, mental, and emotional bodies; and identity loss, I’ve learned how to live in flow instead of force.I combine the depth of Human Design, the intuitive power of GeoLove healing, and a bit of perform-magic sparkle (because transformation doesn’t have to be boring).

You were designed with gifts — not flaws.

Let’s remember who you are.

#EmotionsByDesign | #HumanDesign | #RememberWhoYouAre

Frequently Asked Questions About Healing & Human Design

Here are some of the most common questions I receive about healing from trauma, Human Design, and discovering your spiritual gifts... answered with clarity and love.

Q: How do I heal from gaslighting and narcissistic abuse?

A: The key to healing from gaslighting and narcissistic abuse is love. Rebuilding trust between your spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical bodies happens when you open to receive it. With GeoLove, I use advanced techniques to bring in high doses of Divine Love, helping your whole being feel safe, seen, and restored much faster.

Q: What is Human Design for spiritual growth?

A: Human Design is a map of your unique energy, showing how you’re wired to make decisions, connect, and create. For spiritual growth, it’s not just information—it’s an embodied practice that helps you release conditioning, trust your design, and align with your higher purpose. When guided by love, Human Design becomes a pathway back to your true self.

Q: What are spiritual healing tools for trauma survivors?

A: Spiritual healing tools for trauma survivors work best when they’re rooted in love. Abuse often leaves behind energetic blocks... like a clogged drain... formed from emotions, thoughts, and beliefs you had to develop to survive. When your chakras or energy centers are blocked, energy can’t flow, leaving you exhausted, disconnected from life, and unable to see your gifts. Practices like GeoLove healing use Divine Love to clear those blocks so your energy flows again, your gifts, which you can re-discover through Human Design and GeoLove, come alive. This enables you to serve from an overflowing cup with a renewed sense of purpose.

Q: What does dissociation mean from an energetic perspective?

A: Dissociation is often described by psychologists as “checking out” when stress overwhelms. From an energetic perspective, it’s when parts of your spiritual, mental, emotional, or physical bodies disconnect to protect you. Through energy work infused with Divine Love, these parts gently reunite, restoring harmony, presence, and a deep sense of belonging in your own body. In order to heal, you have to feel... and that’s only possible when you’re no longer dissociated.

Q: What are the steps to discovering your spiritual gifts?

A: Discovering your spiritual gifts starts with love... toward yourself (even the shadow side), your journey, and your design. Tools like Human Design and GeoLove reveal the natural strengths already within you. The steps are simple: notice your patterns, trust your intuition, clear wounds and inherited generational trauma with Divine Love, and practice your gifts until you feel joyful, confident, and ready to share them in service to others.